Dean & Ongert, Texas family attorneys specializing in mediation of divorce/marriage dissolution, pre nuptial agreement, spousal support, child custody, visitation and division of property cases
Dean & Ongert, Texas family attorneys specializing in mediation of divorce/marriage dissolution, pre nuptial agreement, spousal support, child custody, visitation and division of property cases
Dean & Ongert, Texas family attorneys specializing in mediation of divorce/marriage dissolution, pre nuptial agreement, spousal support, child custody, visitation and division of property cases Dean & Ongert, Texas family attorneys specializing in mediation of divorce/marriage dissolution, pre nuptial agreement, spousal support, child custody, visitation and division of property cases Dean & Ongert, Texas family attorneys specializing in mediation of divorce/marriage dissolution, pre nuptial agreement, spousal support, child custody, visitation and division of property cases
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Dean & Ongert, Texas family attorneys specializing in mediation of divorce/marriage dissolution, pre nuptial agreement, spousal support, child custody, visitation and division of property cases Dean & Ongert, Texas family attorneys specializing in mediation of divorce/marriage dissolution, pre nuptial agreement, spousal support, child custody, visitation and division of property cases Dean & Ongert, Texas family attorneys specializing in mediation of divorce/marriage dissolution, pre nuptial agreement, spousal support, child custody, visitation and division of property cases
Dean & Ongert, Texas family attorneys specializing in mediation of divorce/marriage dissolution, pre nuptial agreement, spousal support, child custody, visitation and division of property cases
 

Frequently Asked Questions Regarding Divorce in Houston, Texas

 

Divorce

 

What is a "no-fault" divorce?

A "no-fault" divorce is one where the spouse suing for divorce does not have to prove that the other spouse did something wrong. All states allow divorces regardless of who is at "fault". To file for a no-fault divorce, one spouse must simply state a reason recognized by the state. In Texas it's as easy as stating that the marriage has become insupportable.

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What kind of documents will be needed to put together what the court will need to decide all of the issues involved?

List of Documents Address book names, addresses and telephone numbers will help your lawyer prepare subpoenas for documents, depositions and court appearances. Don`t forget mystery numbers, i.e., those without names, or just initials. Identify them with the cross directory. Look for the following professionals and businesses: accountants-personal and business; bankers--personal and business, including trust officers; bookkeepers; computer consultants--they know how and where data is hidden;

Computer on-line services--obtain passwords to access information; computer message center and voice mail codes; financial planners; friends--those close enough to be trusted with money; insurance agents--including life, annuity, casualty, and key man insurance; lawyers; mailing services--such as Mail Boxes Etc.; mini-storage and office record storage; physicians; stock brokers; telephone answering services; telephone long distance companies; therapists; travel agents--personal and business; Federal and State Tax Returns for past years of the marriage with supporting documentation including all filed schedules for both individual and businesses involved. Relative to the tax returns, look for refunds and/or deficiencies.

If you believe that the document produced is a forgery, have your lawyer insist that Form 4506 is signed by your spouse. The IRS will photocopy the actual return filed. Partnership tax returns (Form 1065) look for net operating loss adjustments. Gift and estate tax returns. Has your spouse made or received any gifts? Has s/he inherited any property? Business Records, Financial Statements and Credit Card Invoices are important. Personal Property Personal property includes: annuities, antiques, art work, automobiles, planes, boats, china and crystal, coins collectibles, frequent flyer miles, furniture/furnishings, furs, guns, jewelry, rugs, bills of sale (all property over $200).

Also locate certificates of title for automobiles, boats, planes, trailers and heavy equipment. Homeowners Insurance scheduled property often states a value for insurance purposes and appraisals contain detailed descriptions of marital property. Note that appraised values may depend on the reason for the appraisal. For example, replacement value appraisals are often inflated while tax appraisals minimize value. Be sure you know the purpose for which the appraisal was prepared. Personal property also includes life insurance policies with information on beneficiaries, cash surrender value, loans against policies other encumbrances against policies, e.g., using the policy as collateral for a loan.

Banking information is also important including savings, checking, and credit union accounts. Note: If your spouse`s name is second on a joint account with a third party, interest income will be reported by that third party. Your spouse will not receive a 1099, and the account will not show on your income tax return. Look at monthly statements (look for payment or debit memo for safe-deposit box rental), passbooks, canceled checks and drafts (front and back) Note: make sure you photocopy the backs of checks, especially those made out to cash, to your spouse or to any unknown third party.

Account numbers of secret accounts may appear along with the name of the depository bank. Also, check cashing card, check register, check stubs, cashier checks (carbon or photocopy), cash transactions, certificates of deposit, Children`s Uniform Gift to Minors Act bank records, Christmas club accounts, deposit slips, linked mutual fund and stock brokerage account, loan and credit applications, numbered accounts (often Swiss), passbooks (check to see if there is a loan against it), wire transfers and withdrawals. Look for any suspicious activities, such as repeated withdrawals of sums such as $505, suggesting conversion to travelers checks for $500 plus a 1 percent fee of $5.00.

In addition there may be information on securities accounts; securities certificates; stocks and bonds; stock brokerage account statements; lists of securities; mutual fund statements; agreements relating to the account, such as, option trading, etc.; and applications to trade certain securities. Note that if your spouse is a sophisticated investor, he/she may have options or commodity trading ability. Stock brokerages require customers to fill out lengthy questionnaires before opening accounts for certain risky activities, such as options. These questionnaires are a good source of information regarding investment experience and objectives. IRA`s, Keogh`s and SEP-IRA`s Pension, Retirement and Survivor Benefits.

Small Business Ownership Records are also important and any information you obtain is helpful in appraising the value of the business, including; buy-sell agreements, key-man, life, and property insurance, casualty insurance, leases, non-compete agreements, financial statements, balance sheet, shareholder equity investments, asset list and depreciation schedules, corporate redemption agreement to purchase stock rights of first refusal, major contracts, pension and profit sharing budgets, projections, marketing literature, loan applications.

Employment Benefits: look for any sign that your spouse has deferred income, commissions, bonuses, royalties or has had salary converted into a non-cash benefit which would include the following: clothing allowance, company car, credit union statements, contracts of employment, employee benefits brochures, pension benefit statement, plan booklet, and amendments actuarial report on the pension plan, expense accounts, expense reimbursements, housing/relocation programs, in-kind compensation, meals, medical insurance, life insurance, loan programs, pay stubs (show certain benefits not part of taxable income), pension, profit sharing, stock purchase plan, travel and entertainment allowance.

Litigation: If your spouse is suing, what`s the value of his or her lawsuit? If your spouse is being sued, do you have any exposure? Are there any prior divorce proceedings--will a first spouses`s right supersede yours? Court papers relating to pending matter(s) including statement of damages (to ascertain the value of the case. Look for Court records of final adjudication and Liens placed on assets. Loan Documents and Applications, Financial statements tend to show inflated asset values, income and net worth. Collection agency letters, home equity loans/lines of credit, mortgages/ home and business notes, passbook loans, and payment schedules. Look for recent payment of loans to family members, business associates, and friends.

Also, look for accelerated payments; your spouse wants to show he has no money for you. Also, promissory notes both payable and receivable. Miscellaneous Income and Assets: royalties, severance pay, workers` compensation, annuities, rental income, prizes and awards, trust and estate income, capital gains, gift certificates, unemployment compensation, pension, veteran`s benefits, social security, lottery or gaming winnings, life insurance income or proceeds, notes payable to your spouse, partnership agreements etc. Basically, any document or information that can track money or property and it`s character should be obtained, preserved and turned over to your attorney.

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Does one have to go to court to obtain a divorce?

A court of law is the only way in which one can obtain a divorce decree, dissolution, legal separation, nullity, or other form of terminating a marriage. Each jurisdiction has established its own body of law by which this procedure is accomplished to give it full legal effect. The various states have enacted statutes that govern the procedures by which this is done. Other than the termination of the marital estate the court also has jurisdiction to resolve the other issues which are intertwined in the existing marriage which include but are not limited to, custody and visitation rights, division of property of the marital estate, spousal support, child support, restraining orders, etc.

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What is involved in starting the process for a divorce?

The first step would be the filing of a properly executed petition with the appropriate court. The court must have what is called subject-matter jurisdiction that would entail satisfying the requirements of residency or domicile within the state and county dictated by the statute. In Texas you must be a resident of the state for six months and you or your spouse must be a resident of the county where the divorce is filed for 3 months (90 days).

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How long does the process take to obtain a divorce?

The time period involved is dependent upon the law of the state. In Texas a divorce may be granted after the petition has been on file for sixty (60) days, however, it can be longer if the parties do not agree on all issues.

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What is an annulment?

An annulment is a method of voiding the contract of marriage. If an annulment is granted, the result is that the parties are treated as if the marriage never occurred. An annulment can only be granted if the initial marriage contract suffers from a defect in the contract formation. Such defects include an underage party without parental consent, a party lacking the mental capacity to understand the marriage contract or fraud in the inducement of the marriage contract. An annulment can only be granted to the innocent party, or the party that suffers from the defect.

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How are Custody and Visitation issues decided?

No area of family law brings to the courtroom the tension, anxiety, hostility, volatility and raw emotion as child custody and visitation litigation. Rare is the divorce, dissolution or custody determination in which the parties have been able to set aside personal differences to reach the goal of what is best for the children involved. Most parents pay lip service to this ideal, but often cannot reach it in actuality. Most often a judge will take great pains to get parents themselves to come to a mutually acceptable custody agreement if that is possible. A decision made by a stranger is rarely completely acceptable to all if the attempt has not been made in earnest. The family court system usually have several layers of counseling, mediation and conciliation to attempt to bring warring parents together for the purpose of resolving the issue of what it is in the best interests of their children.

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What are some Preliminary Considerations?

The court is vested by the state with the authority to determine issues related to the custody of children of a marriage and for whom support is authorized, as well as emancipation, guardianship and other similar matters. It should be noted that the existence of a valid marriage bears absolutely no relationship to the propriety of a determination as to custody and visitation of minor children. Obviously there is no requirement of marriage for children to be brought into the world, but the issue is ripe for resolution within the family law context, whether it be a divorce, establishment of paternity or a child support action. When custody determinations are fully litigated it involves different phases.

Typically the first phase is initiated by way of an order to show cause or ex parte application for custody, requesting temporary restraining orders. If the person requesting such an order is capable of showing an immediate threat of harm to the child or an immediate risk that the child might be removed from the state, such orders can be granted. The next phase typically involves mediation, counseling, and child custody evaluation/investigation. Generally it entails a series of court-appointed mediators and counseling professionals. Its purpose is to move towards a mutual agreement between the parties. Child custody evaluation/investigation comes about in two ways. The court may appoint on its own motion a mental health professional and/or experienced child custody evaluator to investigate the situation and report back to the court as an aid in making the determination.

If an allegation of child abuse or child endangerment is lodged a county agency may institute such an investigation as well. Beyond the allegation being lodged the process is governed by statute and regulatory authority. The concept of legal custody pertains to the rights and responsibilities of the legal custodian to make decisions relating to the child`s health, education and welfare. This is a broad grant and is liberally construed to include most of the significant decisions in the child's life. The concept of physical custody refers to where the child will reside. The parent exercising physical custody over the child will generally be thought of as the custodial parent, while the other parent is commonly referred to as the visiting parent. An award of physical custody is more significant than an award of legal custody because the parent with whom the child is residing typically will exercise the lion's share of the decision-making in issues pertaining to the child. The court will not contemplate an award of physical custody without an award of legal custody, either sole or held jointly with the other parent. Legal custody can be divided jointly between the parents. While not an exhaustive list, the following sets forth some of the considerations the courts have grappled with in this area of awarding custody and establishing visitation: Abuse of alcohol or drugs, change in the child`s residence, child`s preferences, issues of non-marital cohabitation, conduct of the parents in general, daycare issues, history of domestic violence, ethical and emotional guidance, expert recommendations, finances, frequent and continued contact, frustration of visitation, future relationships of the parents, gender of the parents, sexual orientation, past criminal activity, physical or emotional handicap, psychological issues, race and ethnicity issues, religion, schooling, status quo, unconventional lifestyle, work-related issues.

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What about visitation?

Generally a court will grant reasonable visitation rights to a parent unless it is shown that the visitation will be detrimental to the best interests of the child. A non-parent can in the discretion of the court also be granted if they have an interest in the welfare of the child, this is generally divided into the area of grandparents, stepparents and other non-parents. It should be noted that this is discretionary. The court may also approve visitation plans and restrictions considering factors relevant to the best interests of the child.

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Collaborative Law & Mediation

 

What is Collaborative Law?

Collaborative Law is a name given to an attitude toward resolving legal disputes and the policies and practices that put that attitude into action. It avoids much, if not all, of the courtroom trauma.

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What is the difference between Collaborative Law and mediation?

In mediation, there is one "neutral" who helps the disputing parties try to settle their case. The mediator cannot give either party legal advice, and cannot help either side advocate its position. If one side or the other becomes unreasonable or stubborn, or lacks negotiating skill, or is emotionally distraught, the mediation can become unbalanced, and if the mediator tries to deal with the problem, the mediator is often seen by one side or the other as biased, whether or not that is so. If the mediator does not find a way to deal with the problem, the mediation can break down, or the agreement that results can be unfair Collaborative Law was designed to deal more effectively with all these problems, while maintaining the same absolute commitment to settlement as the sole agenda. Each side has quality legal advice and advocacy built in at all times during the process. Even if one side or the other lacks negotiating skill or financial understanding, or is emotionally upset or angry, the playing field is leveled by the presence of the skilled advocates. It is the job of the lawyers to work with their own clients if the clients are being unreasonable; to make sure that the process stays positive and productive.

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I might consider mediation, but will I have to waive my ability to use a lawyer?

Absolutely not! Good mediators encourage clients to have independent counsel review divorce agreements.

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But if lawyers get involved, why bother with mediation?

The lawyers play only a limited role; they just help you make sure the agreement is fair and reasonable, the legal standard by which agreements a judged by the court.

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Child Support

 

Who can be ordered to pay child support?

A court can order either parent of a child to pay support to other parent. The court order for support is usually payable on a monthly basis. Many states now require that child support be paid by wage assignment (automatic deductions from the paycheck) whenever available, thus reducing the need for subsequent enforcement actions. Harris and Galveston Counties usually require that a wage withholding order be entered.

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How long must child support be paid?

In Texas child support is due and payable until the child reaches the age of 18 and graduates from high school, unless emancipated for other reasons.

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How is the amount of child support determined?

Federal law now requires that the amount of a child support payment be set in accordance with a guideline. Having a guideline is believed to prevent widely different amounts of child support being ordered from courtroom to courtroom. Guidelines provide an objective basis for the determination of the amount of support to be paid. As a result, most states have established formulas that are used to determine the amount of the payment from one parent to the other.

Generally speaking the child support obligor will be required to pay 20% of his / her net resources per month for one child, 25% for two children, 30% for three children and 35% for four children.

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I am a stepparent, do I have an obligation to support the children from my spouses previous marriage?

No. You should not be responsible to provide for the children's support, unless there was an adoption or you agreed to provide support in a marital agreement.

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My income dropped dramatically when I was laid off my job and I cannot make my child support payments. Is there any way I can lower my child support payments?

Unexpected, significant decreases in income can be a reason to request modification of your child support order. Consult a lawyer who will probably advise you to file a motion to ask the court to modify the amount of the child support owed in the future, explaining your major and unavoidable drop in your financial situation, that the income is not likely to be replaced soon, and why the change would be fair. Most courts are sympathetic and receptive to making necessary changes in child support when you have experienced a financial setback. Again, paying a lawyer to help can pay for itself dozens of times over.

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Marriage

 

What is a common law marriage?

A small minority of states allow the creation of marriage by common law. Texas is such a state. A common law marriage is one in which there is no ceremony or marriage license. The parties must be capable of contracting and be of the opposite gender. A common law marriage requires an actual agreement by the two people to act as husband and wife. This agreement may be by words or conduct. In addition there must also be a holding out of the marital status. This means the parties must represent themselves to others as married to each other, such as using the same name, calling each other husband or wife, opening joint accounts or contracting joint debt, filing a joint tax return, etc.

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Do both parties to a premarital agreement need a lawyer?

Not necessarily, but the benefits of having one are knowing that the contract is prepared correctly and that you have made an informed decision. The attorney will also be able to guide you in writing an agreement that is most mutually beneficial for both parties. Also, a prenuptial agreement prepared by an attorney is more likely to be enforceable because it is written in proper legal terms.

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If people choose to live together instead of getting married, should they have a contract?

Choosing to have or not have a contract is between those two people. If a legal contract is entered into, it is enforceable in the courts of most states. Preferably, have the contract written instead of verbal because a written contract is easier for the courts to enforce than a verbal contract is. Deciding who pays what bills is an issue where a contract is sometimes used.

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